MARCH 25th: another night out... last night I went
on my second night out for dinner at a casino. A longer trip in a car
and longer walking distance to the restaurant. I think it would have
been ok except for the seat I sat on was soft and bumped up in the
middle which made it hard to sit in a straight posture. I barely made it
home and as I got into my apartment, my friend said, "well at least you
are not in a wheelchair like that guy sitting next to us." and as
sympathy goes, I must say that in my current physical state of
constantly having to be aware of how I walk, stand, sit, length of time,
and even how I lay in my bed. The fear I have of going out, how far I am
from home, and whether or not I'll make it back without another
incident, leaves me to appreciate the painfree and almost normalcy of
being in a wheelchair. At least you know what your challenges are and
you can adapt to them. The almost unstable nature of my current health
makes it hard to know what tomorrow will bring. At least now, moving in
baby steps forward with the Nikken product"s help, I feel a little more
positive in my future.
Interjection: To truely understand where my fears come from, you should
know that I have no insurance to speak of. I am a difficult person to
insure because I am poor, self employed, apartment ridden (have to work
at home), and I have what the insurance companies call a "preexisting"
condition on many levels. Doctors and Hospitals do not want to see my
kind of people walking in the door and don't even think about being
admitted at a hospital on the clause that they have to take you in the
case of an emergency. I have been there and done that twice (not by
choice I assure you) and I have never felt so helpless, so neglected,
and so abused in all my life. Both times I was in a hospital, I
sincerely thought I would not leave that place alive.
I don't mean to be so negative here, but I just want to let you feel the
gravity of my situation, so you can truely feel my joy at even the baby
steps forward I have been taking with Nikken. Ok, look for my next entry
and onwards and upwards...
